
~Bobby's Update Page~
Well, Bobby in now a teenager. How time
fly's.
Ten years ago we brought home a little
boy doing nothing but breathing, and now
we have a young man who is shocking the
Doctors, and everyone who come in
contact with him.
Those who knew Bobby right after the
drowning, can not believe how far this
young man has come.
Everyone always says what a good job we
are doing with him. Believe me, it not
us. It's Bobby willing to do what we ask
of him. It's Bobby, who has the hard job
in life.
Bobby has taught us more about life, and
has given us more lessons then we ever
wanted to learn.
In the last 10 years Bobby has touched
more hearts than the anyone I know. His
BIG brown eyes, and long eye lashes just
melt everyone's hearts.
We started school this year. Going
everyday, but it was just to much for
him, and we were losing ground with
Bobby movement, so he is again being
home schooled. He goes to school once a
week, just to interact with other's than
us at home.
We now have it on paper, that Bobby will
answer you by blinking. He showed the
Dr.'s and nurses this with his last
surgery. When he was waking up from the
surgery the nurses talked to him, and
he answered everything right with his
blinking. We were so proud of him, and
so were the nurses and Dr.'s. The one
Dr. told us that he would have never
believed that this would happen with
Bobby, because of the brain damage.
Well Bobby showed them, DON'T EVER GIVE
UP
We are waiting on getting a new
wheelchair. First one in 9 years. We,
have been working on it since Aug. and
we should have it by Jan. of next year
2005.
Will keep updating, as time goes by.
Life is Good
~New Update~
Well, we are coming up on the 11 year
mark. We have seen a lot of changes in
the last 11 years. The most important is
that Bobby is still showing the Dr.'s
that Love, Hope, and lots of hard work
that anything is possible.
Bobby is doing better than anyone ever
expected. He has good health, and a
personality that won't quit. His BIG
brown eyes can melt anyone's Heart is a
sec. He know how to us his eyes to flirt
and he will bat them at any girl who
will talk to him.
He is getting to be quit a young man. He
is now 5 ft. 2 inches, and weights 86
lb. He is almost taller than Grandma.
We have stopped the Botox injections,
and are now using a Ten's unit. So one
more drug has been cut of the list.
We have started to work with a bell for
Bobby to call us when he needs us. He
really learned fast how to ring it, and
likes to play games with us. He will
ring the bell, when we go to him, he
will smile and turn his head away from
us. We keep telling him about the Little
Boy who cried Wolf all the time, but he
still thinks it funny.
We are working on getting new seating so
we can start using the lift with Bobby.
So that is our next big jump in life,
and also trying to get a new hospital
bed. But that will all come in time.
Well that's about it. We just take one
day at a time, and it has gotten us this
far, so I think that's the way that we
will keep going.
From the baby boy that we brought home
11 years ago to the young man we have
today, GOD has been very good to Bobby
and his family, and WE need to THANK HIM
for that .
Update:
Well we are going on to our 12th year. It sure has went fast, with lots of improvements.
Bobby is now 16, and is 5ft 4 1/2 inches. And 105 lb. A long cry from there little boy we brought home 12 years ago.
This year Bobby got a new Hil-Rom bed, and a ez transfer sheet for his bed. He is getting just to big and heavy for us to be lifting him up in bed. With the ez transfer sheet all we have to do is crank the handle and up he goes in bed. It has been a God sent to my back and also the PCA's. We also got a new head support that Bobby and we like. It don't look so medical, and the support is GREAT.
We also had a few other things go on this year. Last Thanksgiving we spent 11 days in the hospital for kidney stones. That was the worse I think that we have gone thru in a long time. The pain was so bad that Bobby had seizers for 2 hours, before they could get it under control. All of this was from the pain of the stone. Then he had a UTI so they could not blow up the stone until the UTI was gone. What a nightmare, but got rid of them and only stayed overnight after they were blew them up.
We had hip tendon release done, so he can sit in his wheelchair better. All turned out good there. So now we are just kind of hanging out and waiting for Spring to get here.
We found out this late winter that Papa has bone cancer, so if anyone has any extra prayers send them Papa's way.
Otherwise all is good here. Checking out some new therapy's, like Ice and vibration, but haven't started anything yet. Have to wait for the tendon surgery to heal first.
Hope this finds everyone happy and healthy. Just make sure to never give up. Always listen to your heart, and never let anyone tell you that it's a dumb idea. Because all idea's were dumb at one point and time.
Anna, Bobby and Papa